Assuming

I was once told by a friend in Boracay that to ASSUME is to associate "Ass" to "u" and "me". (Thanks Daley)

Hey, please don't get me wrong. I've reposted blogs about defrauding, however, there's another thing that saddened me just this day. It's the fact that most relationships among friends are being ruined by too much assuming.

Frankly, I am affected by how many friendships have been mislead by merely "assuming" things.

Guys, us gurls just love to take care of everything. If you are with us, expect to be taken cared of. It's our way of expressing our very nature.

Dont mind if we offer things or show our care! It could be small or big acts like giving you a glass of water to giving you gifts; whether lending you a towel to lending our unused big clothes if you are sweating; or from a simple invitation to eat out to being invited to our house if we prepared something. These things are really US. It's who we are. It's how we we're made. We simply love doing it. Besides, we wouldn't initiate to invite you if we like you anyways! Remember, it's your job to do it not ours. I still believe that friendship goes beyond being there and hearing us. Service comes into it, from us or to us.

So please, before you assume, evaluate or simply check things first. If we are like this to ALL our BOY friends, then heck WE DON'T LIKE YOU! Just don't go ahead of things and assume.

Girls, same goes to us. We should check our actions and our motives as well. I know that no matter what, our sweetness would always show, but it may be misunderstood. We have to be careful and responsible in our actions as to not mislead guys. It's our resposibility to protect them...and lastly, it's our responsibility to protect our hearts.